1. Anonymous said: I'm married and I'm messing with a married man. A few days ago he told me he has caught feelings. I did fall in love with him but I can't bring myself to tell him in fear that he may be playing with my emotions. We've been messing around for almost three years, is it possible he is telling the truth?

    thesoultape94:

    kingjaffejoffer:

    It’s possible. But you shouldn’t get a divorce because you caught feelings for the person you’re cheating with. Here’s why:

    This analogy may seem weird at first, but humor me for a second. 

    You know how children always love their aunts and uncles? Aunts and uncles are fun because they buy you stuff, they’re always happy to see you. They’re not always on your case about shit like your parents. 

    Aunts and Uncles are fun because they only have to see you when they want to. They don’t have to deal with you 24hrs a day, feed you, clothe you, discipline you, make you do homework. They aren’t your parents so they don’t have the responsibility of the dirty work. That’s why they seem so great.

    This nigga you’re cheating with is an “uncle”. 

    He’s not tasked with the dirty work. Managing bills with you, running a home with you. Smelling your period farts when its that time of the month. Seeing you looking busted when you take that sew in out and don’t have any makeup on. 

    Your husband deals with that shit on the daily. Your husband represents real life and the not-so-fun things that come with it. That’s why the side nigga seems so great. Your side nigga is a vacation from the responsibilities in your real life. 

    I’m not telling you not to cheat. I’m just telling you not to throw away your marriage for greener pastures. Because if you do… your side nigga won’t be the “uncle” anymore… Things won’t be so great. And you might regret your decision. 

    BRUH….

    This nigga really broke it down

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  2. poldberg:

    While there is a lot of appropriate rage about Ferguson right now, the killing of John Crawford, III is getting less attention than it deserves. I put Shaun King’s tweets and history lesson on the matter in chronological order for easier consumption.

    Links:

    Autopsy and video show John Crawford shot from behind in Wal-Mart

    Witness in murder of John Crawford changes story

    You really should be following Shaun King on Twitter.

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  3. LOL

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    taco-bell-rey:

    taco-bell-rey:

    someone give me something funny to reply to this with

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    and he hasn’t messaged me back since

    I still do this

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  4. 
Woman in Southern Ethiopia with her children.

she is low key posin tho haha GET IT!

    Woman in Southern Ethiopia with her children.

    she is low key posin tho haha GET IT!

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  6. langsettte:

weddingdigestnaija:

It’s all about the *details* 😍 beautiful #hausabride #lovelydress regram @safeeyaaa😊 #wdnbride #wdn #weddingdigest #weddingdigestnaija #weddingdigestnigeria

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    langsettte:

    weddingdigestnaija:

    It’s all about the *details* 😍 beautiful #hausabride #lovelydress regram @safeeyaaa😊 #wdnbride #wdn #weddingdigest #weddingdigestnaija #weddingdigestnigeria

    yaaas #nigeriangorlz

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